So, your bae has proposed to you in the most romantic way possible and you are all set to walk down the aisle shortly. In other words, you will be busy with your wedding planning stuff. Usually, planning a wedding is supposed to be exciting and fun in everyone’s life. Unfortunately, this is not always the case. In fact, planning a wedding can be so stressful and exhausting that it can bring the bridezillas and groomzillas even in the nicest of folk. In such cases, you are likely to shout at your loved ones, vendors, bridesmaids, etc.
You will be amazed to know that all these issues boil down to some toxic habits that you show while planning your wedding. Below are some of the most common issues that couples may face when planning a wedding and make them change their personality. Be careful to avoid these toxic habits to make your entire wedding planning process a positive and ever-memorable affair.
Being a perfectionist
Most people, especially the brides would have started dreaming and planning about their wedding from their teenage years. They will have everything sorted and would have a perfect vision regarding how exactly each thing must look. Undoubtedly, they will be extremely furious and stressful if anything doesn’t fall in place. Unfortunately, when you try to bring a flawless dream into reality in the real world, things are ought to be messed up and it will never be perfect in most cases. In fact, odds are than your wedding is not going to be perfect.
Still, this imperfection will be the main factor that you may think about and enjoy the most in the future. Some of the common complications that you may encounter in this case include your wedding cake ideas may not match with your partner’s, your wedding gown going out of your budget, issues with your wedding decoration ideas, etc.
Expecting everyone’s attention
Most couples would be easily swept up in the bliss and excitement of their wedding planning and stuff. You may spend hours on bridal magazines and blogs, may parade numerous stores and places to pick the right decors and hire the best vendors out there, you may spend all your weekends at local wedding expo, etc. Your folks will be aware of your happiness and that you are irrevocably in love with this person. However, never expect them to be as excited and happy as you for your impending nuptials.
While your wedding is a big day that marks an important milestone in your life for you, it will be just a regular day for others when they will be attending a party. So, if you want everyone to speak about nothing but your wedding or to leave everything behind and help you with your wedding planning, you are going to be an inconsiderate and selfish person.